Recently it has come to my attention that females that I know of have been not using their brains...
I guess in their quest for "love" they have been failing to realize when they are being played...
I can't seem to understand it myself...
I mean don't we have all as females have that thing called "intuition" built into us?
I mean isn't it there to warn us when things ain't right!?!?
So then why do we ignore what is already known to be true?
How is it that certain females can allow themselves to be an option to someone who they are making a priority?
I mean you have to know that dude IS talking shit about you behind your back...
And plain and simply disrespecting you on the regular and putting you on blast for being desperate?!?!
How can you not know?
What the f*ck?!?!
I mean...
How can that even feel right?
Is the comfort of knowing you have someone... ANYONE... really that great?
No...
Not even a little bit...
So to all you females who CLAIM to be UNAWARE of being one of the aforementioned...
I'm going to break it down for you right now...
If you find yourself calling dude to hang out excessively while his phone calls to you are little or non-existent... HE NOT INTERESTED IN YOUR MIND
If when dude calls you, it is after 10 o'clock and you f*ck... CONGRATULATIONS YOU ARE OFFICIALLY A BOOTY CALL
If the majority of the time you spend with dude, alcohol or weed are present... YOU'RE ONLY ENTERTAINING WHEN HE'S UNDER THE INFLUENCE
If when you are with dude, he's all over you, and then SUDDENLY when another female approaches and he completely flips the script with you, acting like your shit on his shoe... HE DOES NOT WANT SAID FEMALE TO KNOW ABOUT HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU THEREFORE IMPLICATING THAT YOU'RE NOT THE IMPORTANT ONE
If any of the things above apply to you...
YOU ARE ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE PLAYED!!!!
And please don't try to fight me on this one...
TRUTH HURTS!!!!!
I am not saying this to be an asshole... Actually I'm doing quite the opposite... I'm trying to give you the wake up call your friends are too damn dumb to give you because I actually care! It's just not a good look...
I know in your mind you probably saying "well I'm only using him for sex anyways."
Okay then tell me this...
When you see him with another female... Does it bother you??? Do you automatically start judging the other female??? Do you call her things like "bitch" or "hoe"???
Or my favorite... "Well I had him last night."
If you said no to either...
What the f*ck I look like???? You know you do!!!
Are you not aware of what you're saying?!?! Does it really make you feel better to tear somebody else down to build yourself up?!?! That girl ain't did shit to you... You need to go after dude or let him go if his actions are leading you to be someone so ugly...
No... Because at the end of the day... You may be the one that he's with... Don't mean you're the one he wants...
So... If you or anybody else you know is degrading themselves for some dude that's feelings are manufactured instead of natural... Please get them to read this!!!!
I wrote this because I thought it was my responsiblity as a female who's eyes are open... And am sick and tired of seeing females so disrespected... I do this out of love...
So next time you in the club with your dude... And his attention goes towards another female... Let your attention go towards another male... PERMANENTLY!!!
